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Empathy Beats Policy

Each of my four children received a PUMA sweatshirt as a Christmas present.


None of them fit.


Puma store entrance in a mall with mannequins wearing colorful tracksuits. Bold black and red store sign with Puma logo above.

Fortunately, the gift-giver had very thoughtfully provided a gift receipt for each sweater.


Unfortunately, the gift-giver had finished their holiday shopping early; the receipt stated the purchases were made in early December. And very clearly stated at the bottom of each gift receipt was the store's return policy: returns must be made within 30 days of purchase.


Since the presents were received and unwrapped in late December, the return window was effectively less than a week long. And I had missed it.


I could have regifted or donated the sweaters, but since the store wasn't far away, I decided to see if there was anything the staff was able and willing to do despite the clearly stated exchange policy. The conversation at the checkout counter went like this:


Me: "Hey there. I'm hoping you can help me out, but I understand if you can't. My kids got these sweaters for Christmas, but they don't fit. I have a gift receipt, but...


Store Employee: "No problem!"


Me: "Well, here's the thing. The receipt says that exchanges have to happen within 30 days of purchase, and I clearly missed that window..."


Store Employee: "What? That's stupid. We'll take care of it for you. Is a gift card okay?"


The store's policy was clearly stated, and they wouldn't have been in the wrong had they decided not to accept my return.


But when you're given a choice between empathy and policy, choose empathy.


From a consumer standpoint, empathy beats policy every time.



White and blue sneakers on a brown surface. A box and a purple-pink pattern ball are in the background. The mood is casual and sporty.
I was so happy with the store's willingness to accept my return that I decided to do some shopping... and left with two pairs of shoes and a mini-soccer ball I hadn't planned to buy. It pays to ensure your customers are satisfied. (Often, literally.)


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© 2025 David Pullara. All Rights Reserved.

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